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Lois Vermilya and Lenny Weslowski planted 5 trees in memory of Henry Baldwin
Saturday, April 8, 2023
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Jonathan and the ASE Team planted 3 trees in memory of Henry Baldwin
Monday, March 27, 2023
3 trees were planted in memory of
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Friday, February 2, 2024
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I had Mr. Baldwin 2011-2012 for AP Literature and Composition my senior year of high school. I will always remember how engaging and fun and knowledgeable his class was and out of all the AP classes, this was my favorite one ever. Just to name a few cool and funny moments out of so many as well as his general approach to class...he played "Hard in Da Paint" by "Waka Flocka Flame" and "Big Pimpin'" by Jay-Z to teach us lessons...he let us actually act out plays within the classroom...he brought a cake to class that said "YOLO"...he jokingly told us to behave when the principal was coming to watch our class and he let us joke back with him...he once asked us to name different sports and then roasted some of those sports...he brought a lot of humor to the authors and books he assigned to us...he went beyond traditional literature and introduced us to more diversity and justice...he made class different every day, whether through putting us in groups or having us read out loud or having time to edit our work...he communicated a lot with us and checked in often, both academically and personally.
On Tuesday, February 7, 2012 at 9:45pm, he sent our class this email that I still have saved and want to share:
"Hi all,
So I’ve noticed that lately everyone looks exhausted and worn down; I can see it on the face of most people at school, teachers and students. Maybe it is a universal February feeling. Everyone needs encouragement this time of year, but you all especially deserve it. I don’t think I’ve ever had, on average, a harder working group of students. Everyday, when I come to school, you all make me proud.
I know I work you hard, and it can seem overwhelming at times, but ultimately I’m only trying to prepare you for what next year is going to look like. Still, you deserve a breather. I’m extending your Brave New World essay deadline to the week after the February break. That will be Wednesday the 22nd. You also will have no reading over that break as well, so hopefully everyone can come back a bit refreshed.
Keep up the good work.
-Mr. Baldwin"
This is just one of the many times he looked out for all of us and was so understanding without question and with so much compassion. He did this often.
There were also moments in class where I noticed he stood up for really serious issues. When a student laughed about something really triggering that should have been taken seriously, Mr. Baldwin noticed the reactions from some of us and shut it down. When we were open about struggling with homework or assignments or life in general, he listened and took our feedback seriously, and considered our needs. On a lighter note, Mr. Baldwin often let me eat snacks in his class. On another lighter note, I often tried to make funny comments in class and I still remember Mr. Baldwin either shaking his head or laughing in response.
There were days I cried or was stressed in his class from things not even related to AP Lit and Comp but he made the classroom feel like a safe space for all of us. I shared about my mental health issues with Mr. Baldwin through essays and in person. I still have a lot of those essays from 12th grade because the topics and his comments were so special to me. When my phone was stolen, though it seems so silly and trivial now, Mr. Baldwin was understanding of how much stress it caused a high school teen and made an exception for my quiz that day. There were other instances where I was slow with edits and revisions and homework assignments and he was more than gracious about extending the deadlines and giving me lots of guidance throughout the processes.
I have another email saved from Monday, January 23, 2012 at 12:31pm:
"Thank you for being an advocate for your success; I'm really glad that you are engaged and on top of things.
I looked for you on Friday 4th period to go over your essay; I'm sorry I couldn't look it over earlier; the gallery took up my time.
Best,
Mr. Baldwin"
I will always be thankful for Mr. Baldwin's memory and for being so patient with me being overly involved and running around in high school because he still made himself available and followed up, making sure I was succeeding in academics first and foremost and meeting me where I was at with my learning disabilities. Somehow, he always scheduled time for me and other students and somehow, he knew how to support various learning abilities, even if I didn't have the official paperwork and accommodations back then.
When I was applying to college, Mr. Baldwin held hours after school in the library for extra support. He had a lot of these after school sessions and was really there for us throughout the college application process. He looked over my resume and essay. He also wrote my letters of recommendation. I procrastinated throughout my college application process but he never made me feel bad about it. I ended up getting into Penn State and still referred to how much I loved his class in later English classes I was in. He not only helped me as a student in his class but as a student juggling music, dance, sports, community service, and applying to college. He really saw me for me and knew all of the activities, clubs, and organizations I was passionate about. He knew so much about us in and outside of the classroom and gave us the confidence to believe in ourselves and our capabilities. Recently, when I was reviewing college applications, I saw Mr. Baldwin write so many letters of recommendation for students. I kept telling myself I was going to reach out to him eventually and that I was so excited to see his name. I didn't. I'm trying not to be upset at myself for not doing so. Knowing that Mr. Baldwin continued to advocate for students so earnestly is not surprising and all the more reason why losing him is so painful.
One of my most distinct memories was of Mr. Baldwin's bravery. During the induction ceremony for various honor societies, he was the keynote speaker. He actually shared in his speech his diagnosis of Generalized Anxiety Disorder. His specific example was if he were to hear something bad about a bank in the news. it would make him feel like he would have to take care of all his finances and withdraw all the money in an emergency. I remember he chuckled as he shared it and I remember how much I related to that very specific example. As someone who was dealing with severe anxiety, depression, and OCD without treatment and without having disclosed it to many others at the time, I totally got what he meant. I was also so shocked that he shared something so vulnerable with such a public audience. But the shock later became an inspiration. After that moment I became more open about my own mental health, with him and with others. I still think about that speech from time to time, when I go back and forth about mental health advocacy and being outspoken about it. Mr. Baldwin was the first person who taught me to be brave and open about mental health issues and take care of mental health in general.
Mr. Baldwin was a teacher who was caring and involved and kind and passionate and so much more beyond that. There are so many things I could say about Mr. Baldwin teaching me, helping me, inspiring me, and supporting me. I know so many Bergenfield students that can say the same. Whenever I was asked who my favorite teacher was, whether online answering questions or in person talking to other Bergenfield students and other educators, the answer was and is Mr. Baldwin.
I am keeping Mr. Baldwin's wife and family in my thoughts and prayers with so, so much love. I hope that these stories of his impact and legacy bring up fond memories and happiness.
Mr. Baldwin, you did more than enough. Rest easy and rest in peace. <3.
- Kirsty Nicole Bocado, Bergenfield High School, Class of 2012
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Friday, February 2, 2024
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Sunday, May 14, 2023
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I've been missing you a little extra today of all days friend. Ever since I got the news of your death, I'll catch myself looking through pictures of your last trip to Florida, your wedding, pictures from Singapore...it doesn't feel real that you are gone. It still hasn't sunk in, even though it's been years since we'd talked. I'm thankful for the time we did have together, because any time spent with you was a good time, no matter what we did. Whether it was deep talks, witty bants, philosophical musings, anything, you were so easy to talk to, and everyone came out of conversations with you feeling seen and significant. I've loved reading the comments on this tribute wall because you were a best friend to so many people, that's just kind of who you were. You were my best friend for years, and I can count on one hand the number of people who knew me the way you did. Our conversations about our shared mental health struggles and the difficulties of transitioning back to life in America were a lifesaver for me, literally. You made people feel less alone, which is a powerful thing, and you made them feel like someone was in their corner. I remember when we talked about going to college together in Victoria, and all our research into Canadian degrees to see if they were the same as American ones. I had no experience with the West Coast, and it was on the other side of the US from my family (and yours was in Amsterdam), but I filled out the application because college with you seemed much better than college anywhere else. I will always remember your warmth, your humor (your great laugh), and the peace your company brought, not to mention your brilliance. I still have all the writing snippets you sent me, memories of your creative brain that was such an inspiration to me. I'll always be grateful for your friendship, and no matter who else I meet in life you'll be up there as one of the more special people I have known. I wish that on your birthday you could see how loved you are and the impact you've had on so many people's lives.
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Deb Baldwin posted a condolence
Friday, May 12, 2023
Eddie,
I hardly knew you in person, but I am honored to know you through the memories of your Dad, Eve, Joe and Aunt Brooke. You gave a lot of life to your family, I know, and to your students and colleagues. What better a reputation to leave us with? You left us too early, and we all miss you, we don't know why, but trust that we will someday.
With my love,
Deb
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Wednesday, May 3, 2023
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Tuesday, May 2, 2023
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Hayoung(Tim) Sim uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, May 2, 2023
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When I think of Eddie now after 20 years since we spent time together in ICS Singapore, I can picture Eddie with a huge smile and face full of excitement. He was a passionate person in everything, playing sports, playing computer games, studying, and even watching ancient K-pop videos tapes together at my place in Yio Chu Kang. Even though I was not fluent speaking English in my first year in ICS back in 2000, I was still able to make friends with Eddie easily, because of his humble, fun, and pure personality. He helped me adapt to the new culture and new school environment. I feel lucky to meet Eddie as one of the first foreign friends in my life. I am hoping to see him again in Heaven and I will give him a nice high-five and a big hug. Rest in peace, Eddie.
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Jessica Hunsberger posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 18, 2023
The thing I remember most about Eddie in the brief time I spent with him was his smile. It was the most genuine smile; I loved when, in during conversation or hanging out, he would let a zinger fly and bring laughter to the group. Those zinger smiles were the brightest. The only thing brighter was his love for his family. Our time with loved ones is always too short; I'm grateful for the time I had to know Eddie. Blessings to his family as you all navigate this journey.
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Joan Froehlich posted a condolence
Monday, April 17, 2023
I had the pleasure of working with Eddie at Bergenfield High School. He had that rare combination of genius, humility, creativity, and patience. He was hilariously funny too. He was a great conversationalist and cracked me up with his cutting-edge knowledge of teen slang. He showed up early for a department party I hosted and he helped slice the tomatoes, slice the fresh mozzarella, sprinkle the fresh basil, and drizzle the olive oil. He used to play a fun game on the internet--identifying a country by a random photo. He gave super smart kids somewhere to go. A wonderful colleague, and a good person. I shall remember you smiling. Love, Joanie Froehlich
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Marian Balcacer posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 11, 2023
Baldwin,
Wanted to take a moment to express my gratitude for the impact you had on my life. You showed me that there is so much to discover beyond our everyday routines, and that there is an endless array of cultures, cuisines, landscapes, and experiences waiting to be explored. You reminded me to always approach life with an open mind and an open heart. As I continue to travel and explore new horizons, I will carry your spirit with me. I will deeply miss hearing about your travel stories and will miss the food talks. So grateful that I had the chance to be your student.
With much love and admiration, Marian.
P.S, I know you always said to avoid P.F Chang, I must admit you were right
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Regina posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 5, 2023
We were so shocked and saddened to hear of Eddie’s passing. I met Eddie at ASE around the same time Anneke did, and we traveled together on a couple of occasions- Porto being the most memorable. I so enjoyed watching Eddie and Anneke’s relationship grow over the years following our study abroad time. I will always remember their wedding as the first among my friends- such a happy day. My husband Chris and I subsequently had the pleasure of spending time with Eddie and Anneke on several occasions, including trips to NJ, Lancaster, and New Hope. I will always remember Eddie’s laugh. He had the best sense of humor and the warmest demeanor. His loss is profoundly sad for us, but his memory will remain with us forever. Love, Regina and Chris D’Avella
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Tuesday, April 4, 2023
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Eddie was my bestfriend back in ICS. We spent our school breaks cleaning the school grounds. I can still remember while tending to the fallen leaves, asking him some "had-has-have" grammar questions. He was my google grammar back then. We spent nights at his place for LAN parties, despite playing pointless "tower defense" til we dropped, we definitely had fun. He introduced the series Scrubs to me which helped me develop some of my humor today. He knows the best words to say when I needed them, especially when I left for college the day after our Senior prom. They all went to the airport with their suits and dresses on just to see me off. I wish I had pictures back then.. here are the last few pictures I have with him. This was the time Anneke first visited SG and coincidentally I was visiting SG as well. Such a lovely couple, something I dreamed of having back then. I will miss you bud. I will definitely miss you Eddie.
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Andria Babu posted a condolence
Monday, April 3, 2023
In our last conversation, you told me and my friends that we all had a good head on our shoulders. That was a huge compliment coming from you, considering you were the biggest reason why. You played a huge role in molding our minds and making sure to meet conflict with kindness.
For a lot of us, your classroom was a hub that pivoted us into adulthood. It was the greatest place to be at the time. The sweet and seemingly small act of rewarding us with brownies overpowered the bitterness of turning 18. You brought back a childlike joy while also giving us the tools to be successful adults. All the greatest food, memories, and friends came from having you as a teacher.
I’ll never forget those times you congratulated me for little things and told me you were proud of me. You sat with me until I finished my essays and made sure I graduated. Thank you for not giving up on me and inadvertently teaching me to not give up on people. It meant the world, Mr. Baldwin.
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When I first started working at BHS I was nervous and unsure of how things would go. Upon waking in one day, I found a note on my desk from Eddie welcoming me to the department and instantly putting my nerves at ease. It wasn’t long before Eddie was someone I considered a friend. Going to work was better because he was there. He knew when to be serious, but always also knew how to have fun. Eddie was always there for everyone, and constantly went out of his way for his students. I was always in awe of how much his students loved him and how amazing of a teacher and person he was. I am thankful for the cookies and food he made, the fun times we had at school events, his witty banter, the ways he made fun of me, our travel conversations and so, so much more. Things are now forever changed, but I will always carry those memories with me.
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Nathan Low posted a condolence
Sunday, April 2, 2023
It's hard to put into words the immense and immensely positive impact that Eddie had on me, during the biggest transition of my life when I moved from the US to Singapore. He was one of the first people to make me feel truly at home, even though I was far away from home.
It is no surprise that he continued to make such a deep and meaningful impact on his many students, peers, and loved ones. Learning about all of Eddie's personal and professional achievements and how much his students love him rings abundantly true to the Eddie that I knew and remember. He was smart, kind, the life of the party - and most notably, a light to others.
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Brooke Vernile posted a condolence
Sunday, April 2, 2023
You are forever in our hearts, Eddie-Bear! Travel God’s universe always with a sense of wonder and serenity!
With love, Aunt Brooke
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We considered Eddie our fourth son, though slightly older than our own three. Always the competitor, he pushed our guys to excellence—in school, computer games, cooking, sports, or whatever. But he did hold them back once upon trying to reenter Singapore from Malaysia. His car had the toy plastic BB guns seized at Immigration—so, even though his family lived on the same street as ours, Eddie's car arrived an hour or two later without those BB guns he so wanted to bring back. How many vacations to Cameron Highlands and other Malaysian spots did our families take together? We lost count. The year and a half he lived with us brought joy to our hearts as he adjusted from high school in Singapore to college in the States. He "lived life" authentically with us in more ways than the attached pictures can show. One picture is from his visit back to Singapore in 2012 with Anneke to help her see his roots. Eddie will always occupy a vital place in our hearts.
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Sunday, April 2, 2023
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"Life I think can never be understood, so the best thing you can do is to enjoy the time you have." - Eddie Baldwin, sometime in 2002.
I joined ICS in grade 10, and got to know Eddie that spring break when he, Dan and Stacia joined my parents and myself on a trip to Indonesia. I remember teasing him for not liking coffee or tea on that trip. More fond memories from that year, when Eddie played my cousin in our school's production of The Importance of Being Earnest - he brought a lot of laughs to rehearsal, and he was really dedicated to his role.
He became a good friend during our last couple years in high school. He was always a pleasure to be around. He was funny and charismatic; he was kind and thoughtful. We kept in touch for a while, but I never had a chance to see him again after high school, and I really regret not being able to attend his wedding. My condolences, and my love go out to Anneke, Evie and Henry. Eddie, you will be missed. I hope you are at peace, feeling all the love from your family and friends right now.
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Saturday, April 1, 2023
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Eddie was an important part of the ICS family. I remember missing him when his grade graduated from 5th to 6th and he would report back to us what it was like being on the upper campus. My school memories of him include being impressed by his ability to memorize lines for the school plays, learning guitar together, that middle school year he was obsessed with chess, and winning the U14 basketball tournament in side by side games.
In high school our friend group spent so much time together outside of school in LAN shops, movie theaters, pool halls, walking Orchard Rd., at Young Life, and at overnight LAN/movie parties.
In our late teens, Eddie became a closer friend. We were able to share the hard things of life with each other, ask questions about the workings of the male/female mind, and offer a listening ear. One of my last times spent with him was in 2006 when I was leaving the Griffith house late at night and found Eddie wide awake on the couch. He asked if I was going home, and when he learned I was planning to wait at MRT until it opened, he grabbed his shoes. We walked for hours through Bishan Park, laughing, reminiscing, and grappling with the shifts in life that we were experiencing. I am sad we lost touch with each other after that year, but am thankful to read of the impact he continued to make on those around him. I will always remember Eddie for his intellect, loyalty, playfulness, and friendship. Rest well, my friend.
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anonymous posted a condolence
Saturday, April 1, 2023
Mr Baldwin was the greatest teacher I have ever had.
I don’t say this lightly. He truly inspired everyone in the class to do their best. He was a teacher but also a great friend to all his students. He was always available even when he was overloaded with so many classes. Two favorite memories that I had with Mr.Baldwin was
- trying caviar (lol day I learned rich people don’t have taste buds)
-playing paintball with class of 2015 AP hum Geo class. The only person to shoot me that day
I can’t believe he is gone and he will truly be missed. But death is not the end for his saints, and I know we will see Mr.Baldwin on the other shore.
My deepest condolences to the family and my prayer are with you
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There are not many people like Mr. Baldwin, and while that makes me deeply sad, I so treasure how I was able to know the beauty of his existence. His warmth and light. We used to talk about how we missed home, how I missed the Philippines and you missed Singapore. How the sunlight feels different there, and how we both yearned for it. Mr. Baldwin, you weren’t just a few rays, you were the whole entire sun. I look for you in everything that I do and everything that I am. Hoping to see just a glimmer of your shine once more.
Thank you for being all that you were and all that you are to me and my friends. I truly don’t know where I would be without you. You are here with me always. In the foods I eat, in the books, I read. You don’t know this, but I ended up majoring in English because of your class. I am graduating this Spring, and I would have invited you to see it. I got a job teaching too, and I just hope to be a little bit of what you were to me to my own students. Mr. Baldwin, I owe my life to you. You taught me how to find the sunlight, even when it’s dark. I once found it in you, but for now, just knowing you once glowed as bright as you did is enough. I will try to shine for both of us.
I hope the sun feels warm up there.
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Thursday, March 30, 2023
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I was Eddie’s English teacher at ICS in Singapore. First laid eyes on him in my classroom in August of 1999 when he was 13 years old and in 8th grade. What a fantastic, fun class that was. Those kids were delightful; they were interesting; they were whip-smart, too. And Eddie was right in the middle of them, friendly and open to all. His sardonic wit would bubble up during class discussions, and though he did not often push himself into the exact center of attention, he made sure he was never too far from it, either.
When you teach English, you read a lot of the students’ writings and get to know not only their writing style and thought pattern, but also the person behind the writing. As I taught Eddie through the years, I thoroughly enjoyed his insights into literature, his keen grasp of grammar and English usage, his excellent vocabulary and syntax—by the time he was a high school senior and in my AP English class, Eddie could drop a tight, provoking, critical essay on nearly any topic without breaking a sweat or losing his light touch with words—but man alive, did I ever enjoy the boy himself! He was steady, funny, thoughtful in an understated way, courteous (to all ages and nationalities), and kind. He was the guy you wanted to add to any group to bolster it along, keep it positive, and disarm any negativity.
Outside the classroom, Eddie was involved. In everything. Sports. Youth activities. Those Christmas parties (picture included). Theatre. In fact, he had great presence on stage, partly because he never lost his head or dropped a line. “Our Town.” “Arms and the Man.” “The Importance of Being Earnest.” He acted in them all, a very satisfying actor to direct because he had the capacity to grow into his part on stage. When I think back to those years at ICS, it seems to me Eddie was quite happily, though not necessarily noisily, involved in everything, constantly with his friends, laughing, enjoying his youth and energy and a wide variety of interests.
I kept track of Eddie, mostly from a distance (he was never one to be chased), as he progressed through college and into the workforce, but we did get to cross paths in January 2008, the last time we got to visit in person. (Picture included.) He was at William & Mary, and we were down visiting relatives, only 20 minutes away. Eddie talked non-stop. I loved it! I got to hear all about his English classes in college, and together we connected some dots from his high school classes, to our mutual delight. I was proud of him and happy for him, as he obviously enjoyed his studies immensely. It was a wonderful visit.
He wrote me a few years after that, in 2011. I’ll include portions of it here:
“Hi Susan/Mrs. Lawrence,
So I generally hate going on Facebook because nostalgia makes me unhappy, but flipping through I saw your name and I felt I needed to let you know...I’m starting my second year of teaching...I’m teaching AP literature and composition at Bergenfield High School. I have a class website if you are interested....I still feel like a fraud, but I must be doing something right because most of my students, and my bosses, are very happy with me, and I won a NJ distinguished early career teacher award. I’m married now, life goes on, but in the quiet moments I miss the old days...All the best to you and your family.
-Eddie”
I’m sharing so that Eddie’s family, friends, students, and bosses can hear in his own words, written early in his career but not long after his childhood came to a close, that he thoroughly enjoyed and appreciated that childhood and its friendships though the sorrow of parting was hard to carry and sharp to recall, and that he loved and was genuinely amazed by his students as he became a real honest-to-goodness high school teacher, one that his bosses believed could actually do the job.
Well. Of course he could.
“The voice of God whispers in the heart
So softly
That the soul pauses,
Making no noise,
And strives for these melodies,
Distant, sighing, like faintest breath,
And all the being is still to hear.”
--Stephen Crane
Rest now, Eddie. I look forward to seeing you again. So very much.
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Wednesday, March 29, 2023
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Wednesday, March 29, 2023
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Little brother,
I’ll admit, when we were growing up, there were times when I was jealous of you. You were smart and talented and funny - nobody I knew measured up (especially me!).
Once I grew up, however, that changed into legitimate pride. I told everyone about you - every award you won and new curriculum you developed, all the beautiful places you travelled and the amazing programs you started. I wasn’t worried about keeping up; I was too busy just being in awe. You were the teacher and straight up human being I believe all educators should aspire to be.
I know that alongside all of this ran a current of immeasurable pain. I wished I could have carried it then, and, dear god, I look back and wish that now. And I wish you could see this outpouring of love for you. Even in the midst of your worst torture, you changed the world, Eddie. You changed the whole world.
We will see each other again, and until then, I will try every day to be the kind of person Eddie Baldwin’s sister should be. Be at peace, little brother.
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To Mr. Baldwin,
I’ll never forget your ability to make everyone smile on their worst days and how you went beyond your role as a teacher to make sure they were seen. You have made a huge impact on me and my friends, and I don’t think I’ll ever find the words to show how appreciative and grateful I am. There’s not a single day I go through without thinking about your influence. I look for your kindness in the people I meet, your sense of adventure in the places I go, and your love for food at the places I eat. I’m thinking of you always.
Love,
Patrick
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Ian Corrigan posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 28, 2023
One of the last times I saw Eddie was in the summer of 2007. I had been traveling all day to meet him, taking trains from southern Germany to somewhere in the North to catch a flight to Joel Gabrielson's wedding in Stockholm. I am forgetting which northwestern German city I had arrived in but I saw Eddie on the platform of the train station. I was so happy to see him and that I was in the right place.
The airport we were flying out of was in the sticks and we were both a bit stumped and anxious as to how to get there. We used what little german we knew to piece together where we had to go, asking passersby where this mysterious discount airport was located. What we deduced was that it was hard to get to and we were running out of time. We ended up having to pull from what little money we had to take a cab to the airport so we wouldn't miss our flight.
After the wedding and a long night of celebration we ended watching the light creep over row homes on the balcony of the apartment in which we were staying. We had spent the night dancing and partying, talking about where our lives were going, history, philosophy; everything under the sun. I remember Eddie’s balanced perspectives, his keen and exacting observations, and his willingness to challenge thinking and beliefs without being condescending. It is no wonder that he became a beloved and adored educator.
Growing up in Singapore together, having all night LAN parties, playing capture the flag at lock ins, soccer, scavenger hunts, going to summer camp together in Georgia, every memory I have is packed with action, movement and frenetic joy. He was hilarious, he hipped me to the comedy of Christopher Lambert by way of his 1999 classic Beowulf. Eddie would come up with the most sideways, nonsensical ways of playing video games. It goes without saying that he had an amazing mind.
Unfortunately I had not spoken to Eddie in over a decade, geographical distance and Eddie’s proclivity to eschew social media (time has shown him to be on the right side of history) meant that our friendship was left to the ineffable affect of memory but I reflect on it with joy.
If you would like to indulge in and experience some of the fun we had in Stockholm throw on one of Eddie’s favorite songs at the time he showed me:
Willkommen in meinem Garten by Blümchen.
Cheers Eddie, you are missed, rest easy.
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Joe Meyer posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 28, 2023
Eddie gave me some of the greatest gifts that a brother-in-law can give. First, he had faith in my ability to love and care for his sister. That trust is something that will stay with me forever. Secondly, and he might not have really known this consciously--but I hope he did, every time he made a joke or brought up a memory that made Eve laugh or smile, it made me do the samel. I will miss hearing his laugh and seeing that amazing smile that he would flash when he was happy.
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Kaitlyn Gelman uploaded photo(s)
Monday, March 27, 2023
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I had the honor of having Baldwin my senior year. I had him over Zoom due to the pandemic and he did not hesitate to build a strong, whole-hearted relationship with us as he did with everyone who he interacted with. His mid-class discussions about traveling, cooking, and video games will never be forgotten. His laugh was radiant and he kept the atmosphere positive despite unordinary circumstances of virtual learning. I’ll always remember Mr. Baldwin and the life lessons he scattered throughout his classes each and every day. Mr. Baldwin, you are so dearly missed.
With love,
Kaitlyn Gelman
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Stacia Littlefield posted a condolence
Monday, March 27, 2023
So many of my middle and high school memories include Eddie - from being in the high school play together, to a trip to Indonesia, to playing Capture the Flag in Cameron Highlands during Christmas break.
I remember when my family was in the US for part of the school year and I had to come back mid-way through the year, Eddie would email me to catch me up on things. He was kind, smart, and hilarious - and I’m thankful he has been a part of my life.
One of my favorite memories of Eddie was when the boy’s basketball team won the championship (majorly impressive for our little underdog high school). He looked incredibly proud and happy - that image of him keeps returning as I think of his life. May he be full of joy always, may he know how loved he is.
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Katie Racanelli lit a candle
Monday, March 27, 2023
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To Baldwin family,
My name is Katie, though I never had the pleasure of having Mr. Baldwin as a teacher he definitely had an impact on BHS. He was a beam of hope for not only the teachers but the students as well. He was at every event the school ever had, if there was no one in the crowd, you can always count on Mr.Baldwin to be in the crowd no matter rain or shine. My heart and prayers go out to the family of Mr. Baldwin and anyone who is affected by his passing.
-Katie Racanelli
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Nancy Haag posted a condolence
Monday, March 27, 2023
Eddie was one of the brightest lights in our high school community. I remember when he first had this idea for a competition called "The Quiz Bowl", and he wanted to try it out on random staff members. I was among the first that he asked random geography questions to in rapid succession. All I could do was laugh, because he was laughing with me. It was definitely a hilarious moment.
Another great memory for me, was one Halloween. He was wearing a T-shirt covered in cloud like cotton balls and carrying a spray bottle. I asked what he was and he responded "Cloudy with a chance of showers" and proceeded to spritz me with water! That was a classic Baldwin moment for me!
The impact his life had on so many, wasn't in vein. He has literally changed lives, and everyone who crossed his path, is better for it. He was the most genuine soul and he adored his many students. Not only teaching his curriculum, but making friendships and finding the fun in life to teach it to them. Heavens' gain. Eddie your light can only shine brighter now!
Nancy Haag
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Henry Baldwin posted a condolence
Monday, March 27, 2023
Dear, Precious Son,
How you were loved by your momma and me. You were our sweet boy and our “Steady Eddie.”
You lived courageously in a changing world that swirled around you. Sometimes you felt your foot slipping- but most often you adapted and made peace with it all - and moved on.
But some things were just more than you could bear. And you suffered.
The suffering is over now. The peace has returned. You are free to know Complete Love and Fullness of Life at last.
I shall miss you. But we will meet again. Save me a place at the Masters feet.
Love, Dad
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Lea Ann D’Esposito posted a condolence
Monday, March 27, 2023
Thank you Eddie for the love, support and compassion you shared with the BHS students, faculty and staff. Your smile was contagious and enthusiasm a true gift. RIP dear Eddie. May God bless you and give your family strength and support as they get through this difficult time. So sorry to lose such a BHS treasure.
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Michael Smith posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, March 27, 2023
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I remember Eddie’s smile, laughter and wit. He gave me tips when we played basketball for ICS. We knew each other through school and had many shared connections. Thankyou Eddie for the laughter you brought and the life you shared with us all.
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Hailey Pierre posted a condolence
Monday, March 27, 2023
Q: What will you never forget about Henry?
A: I will never forget how Mr.Baldwin made me amazing chocolate cranberry cookies on my birthday, that was the nicest thing any teacher has ever done for me. His kindness is something that will be missed so heavily. Mr.Baldwin was such a pure soul and his legacy will live on.
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Dave & Barb Hagelberg uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, March 26, 2023
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We have fond memories of watching Eddie play basketball in high school in Singapore, rooting from the parents' section. He was a good friend to our three boys and we're grateful for the wonderful memories of vacations spent together in Cameron Highlands, Malaysia, with Eddie and his family. Though we didn't see him as an adult we are blessed to read about the great teacher he became!
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Dan Hagelberg uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, March 26, 2023
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Eddie was the first friend I made when I moved to Singapore in middle school. He repeatedly went out of his way to make sure I felt welcomed in a new school, in a new country. We became fast friends, a friendship that lasted into adulthood. After high school, I only got the chance to see him once every few years, but when I did, it was like no time had passed. Whenever I saw him, we had some good times for sure, but more than that, I felt really proud of him for the person he'd become.
I feel blessed to have had you in my life. You're missed tremendously. Rest well, old friend.
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Alyssa Darby posted a condolence
Sunday, March 26, 2023
Q: What will you never forget about Henry?
A: I will never forget Mr.Baldwin's laughter. His booming laughter would light up the room and make everyone join him. He always had a smile on his face and would lift students up whenever they needed it, and never showed any negative energy toward us. He cared for us like a friend and loved us like family. I will never forget how deeply he impacted all his students with kindness, grace, and love. May he rest in peace.
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Evie Baldwin uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, March 26, 2023
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“There is nothing more beautiful than someone who goes out of their way to make life beautiful for others.”
-Mandy Hale
Eddie and Shirley Baldwin, two people who gave of themselves.
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Evie Baldwin uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, March 26, 2023
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A photo I made him take from the first time our high school ever allowed us to have a dance. For almost 37 years, there hasn’t been a day I wasn’t proud to be family.
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Renee Dones uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, March 26, 2023
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I had the privilege of having Mr.Baldwin for two years while I was in high school and he touched the lives of every person he spoke to. During senior year, we were half online half in person and he would always let me come to his room whenever I did not feel like going to my actual classes. He made me and many others feel comfortable and his classroom was one of my favorite places to go. He taught me resilience and how I could make the world a better place. Everyone deserves to have a Mr.Baldwin in their lives
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Raizel Febles uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, March 26, 2023
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Mr.Baldwin meant the world to our friend group. He was our go to for lunch and even early morning talks before school started. I would “vogue” around the classroom with him and translate Spanish songs for him. Mr.Baldwin wasn’t my teacher till this school year but I had met him my junior year and we became very close. We were both so excited for me to finally take one of his classes. There truly will never be a person as selfless and genuine as Mr.Baldwin. I will miss his pep talks and our gossip sessions. I will miss having lunch together and being taught by him. He has truly helped me grow so much as a person and hope I can grow up to be even a quarter of the person Baldwin was. Mr.Baldwin will always be remembered for the amazing person he was and the countless of lives he has touched.
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Gabby Cruz uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, March 26, 2023
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Mr. Baldwin was my teacher for two years. He was one of my favorite people in the whole world. I’ve never met someone who displayed such acts of selflessness and generosity; whether it was emailing his students on rough days or baking them something for their birthday. He was undoubtedly hilarious and was a light in my life. He helped me understand myself and encouraged me through every single hardship. The first day I met him I always hoped I could be half the person Baldwin was. He played pickleball with me after school and was my go to partner. We played Catan during lunch and he always welcomed me into his room for our daily chats. He was the most understanding person and my life truly will not be the same without him. I am so lucky to have known Mr. Baldwin and he is deeply loved and missed.
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Hannah Peakman posted a condolence
Sunday, March 26, 2023
I had the great honor of knowing Eddie when I lived in Singapore while attending high school. My parents traveled often, but I always knew I had a place to stay with the Baldwins that felt like home. When I hit rough patches, Eddie somehow knew I was having a tough time and he always found a way to make me laugh. Laughter was an incredible gift he shared with so many of us at school and his compassion was so inspiring to me.
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Ryan Alberto uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, March 25, 2023
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Q: What did Henry like to do in their free time?
A: Mr. Baldwin was one of my favorite teachers I have ever had. He was smart and funny and loved to share stories of his life. I had him this school year and throughout he had one of the only classes I truly looked forward to going to. He made learning fun. But Mr. Baldwin was so much more than just a teacher he had his own life outside of teaching that I got to see a glimpse of when I made a podcast with him. He actually was one of the first to complement me about it when I first started. He even said it inspired him to want to start his own. I know he will be missed greatly and touched so many people during his time. Forever in mine and so many other hearts.
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Lisa Churn posted a condolence
Saturday, March 25, 2023
He was the wind beneath our "English" wings. He was the smile that lit our department with sunshine. He was the heart that always filled ours with the overflow of his generosity and genuine love for his students and colleagues. For twelve years, we were blessed by his boundless energy and larger-than-life presence. Now, all our tomorrows will be forever blessed by the joy of having had the privilege and pleasure of knowing Eddie, and forever blessed by the comfort of being able to treasure how much he touched all our lives in the timeless recesses of our memories.
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Ligia Alberto posted a condolence
Saturday, March 25, 2023
Q: What will you never forget about Henry?
A: I will never forget about Henry his incredible talent to teach and inspire others to learn. He was without a doubt an excellent teacher and role model for the students at BHS.
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William Nagle uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, March 25, 2023
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Q: What will you miss most about Henry?
A: Everything. I loved hanging out with him, playing board games, traveling, eating, drinking beer and whiskey, listening to weird gangsta rap he liked. The activity didn't matter because he was an awesome person. Very kind, friendly, funny, smart. Generous and a great gift giver to his friends. He will be missed by many.
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Samantha O'Leary posted a condolence
Saturday, March 25, 2023
I have the special distinction of meeting Eddie and Anneke on the same day that they met each other. We all studied abroad together in Bath, England in the fall of 2007 and they became two of my best friends to this day. We were a trio bouncing through the semester as the “cool kids” on an extremely nerdy program, an experience we were all having for the first and last times. I have so many specific memories of Eddie from that time that I will cherish forever - eating naan bread the size of a table, figuring out how to illegally stream it’s always sunny in Philadelphia and singing “day man” over and over, enjoying morning table time, and cooking family dinner’ with our housemates. I mostly remember laughing, though. Eddie always made me laugh with his clever wit and wide but deep knowledge of an incredible number of subjects. I’m so glad that after study abroad and college that we all stayed close and made it a point to see each other multiple times a year. I’m so grateful that our friendship blossomed into one we shared with my husband, Will, who considered Eddie a very close friend. I hope that right now Eddie is eating naan bread the size of a table and baking a cheesecake. This is an incredible loss and I’ll think of Eddie everyday
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Friday, March 24, 2023
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